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09/27/2010

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The selection of books for boys to read is sparse. Boys and males in general have been marginalized in importance with the women’s movement and this has to be evident in the home where most tasks are now gender neutral and therefore more in the realm of the feminine. Men have taken on the role that mothers used to have and women have taken on the role of breadwinner, which men used to have. In the process, men have been marginalized and with them their own male children. Women have been given advantages over men in the same way affirmative action has worked. Often the playing field is not equal and the motivation for the male shrinks. Men are no longer told they are stronger or smarter and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
When I was in high school, in the sixties, the college entrance requirement for males was several points lower than females, so males must have scored lower then as well, but in actuality, they were supposed to perform at a higher level than their scores indicated at some point in the future.
In addition, in earlier decades, children were not so over programmed. It was not necessary to make them into well rounded jacks of all trades, providing access to every sport and after school activity. They were trained to be masters of one, only. School was the primary concern for most families; education was their ticket to success. Today it is not so traditional. Athletics and entertainment fields seem to be the best ticket to anywhere and for those careers, intellect is not the primary factor.
As a former teacher, I am aware of the fact that anyone can be excited by books, providing the person presenting them makes the effort to excite them. Even the most mundane subjects can be presented in interesting ways if the time is taken to find them. Different students react to different stimuli. One size fits all just doesn’t work in the educational environment and yet that is the direction we have taken. Can you imagine putting a size 12 body into a size 2 dress? Well that is what it is like when you try to teach all students in the same way.
We have lowered the bar and so the results are lower. We no longer have expectations for our students. We simply accept whatever they do in the interest of keeping their psyches healthy and keeping them happy rather than expecting them to achieve. We have taken the easy, lower road rather than the harder, higher one.
Electronics have become substitute parents. It is easier to plug a child into a machine than to engage him. Engaging him is hard work. Parents are tired from working all day so they can have enough money to buy all of the newest devices out there so they can plug their children in. The circle is complete. We have a generation tuned into or plugged into various headsets or other devices rather than into education and the expansion of their knowledge base including rules of appropriate behavior.
Even books are now being put on electronic devices because of the ease of availability. Me, I am a dinosaur. I prefer a book, a solid entity which excites, intrigues and invites me in. Long live the book for all the worlds it can take me to explore. Here is hoping that the pendulum swings back and parents and schools begin again to have expectations of those they teach, male and female, and that they begin again to require certain behavior and appearance from the students so that these children can face the future with hope and a longing for all the wondrous things before them that life can offer, rather than the blood and guts so prolific in literature now.

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